Are you still looking for your soul-mate?

Are you wondering why you haven’t found that special someone yet?

Take this quiz, written by my wise colleague and friend Arielle Ford, author of The Soulmate Secret, to find out if you‘re ready to meet the love of your life.

The Soul-mate Quiz

1. Do you believe the perfect partner exists for everyone?

a. Yes
b. Yes, but it requires a lot of compromise
c. Not sure.
d. No

2. Do you believe you are loveable?

a. Yes, definitely.
b. Most of the time I believe it.
c. Possibly, maybe.
d. No.

3. If your soul mate knocked on your door right now, how prepared are you emotionally and physically?

a. 100%
b. 85%
c. 50%
d. Not at all

4. Do you have an ex-lover that you are still pining for?

a. I am totally complete with my past lovers.
b. Not really. I’m in pretty good shape.
c. I am currently working on letting go of an ex.
d. Yes, I’m obsessed.

5. I have not yet met my soul-mate because:

a. I believe in divine timing and I am savoring the waiting.
b. I haven’t been 100% ready.
c. All the good ones are taken.
d. I’m too old/fat/broke/damaged or some other reason.

6. If my soul-mate could observe my life today, he/she would see that:

a. I have a great life and I’m ready to share it.
b. I’m almost ready but could use a breakthrough or two in a few areas of my life.
c. I’d like to find love, but there are sill big obstacles in my life.
d. I’m a basket case.

7. The real reason I want a soul-mate is:

a. To share my love and like with a partner in a deeply committed, loving relationship.
b. To experience being loved, cherished and adored.
c. I don’t want to be alone anymore.
d. I wan to find someone to fix me and take care of me.

8. Is there room in your home for your soul-mate?

a. Yes. There’s room in my closets and in my heart.
b. Depends…how much room do they need?
c. If they show up, I’ll make room.
d. No.

9. Do you truly believe your soul-mate is out there, somewhere?

a. Yes, absolutely.
b. Most of the time I believe it.
c. Possibly, but I’m not convinced.
d. No.

10. Please add up how many of your answers are

A’s _______
B’s _______
C’s _______
D’s _______

If the majority of your answers are A’s:
Congratulations. You have the right attitude and love is just around the corner for you. I bet you already know that AND even if it doesn’t happen all that quickly, you will continue to live your life with love, passion and appreciation.

If the majority of your answers are B’s:
You have a strong idea of the kind of relationship you don’t want but you haven’t gotten 100% clear on the type of man/woman you want to spend your life with. Identify a soul-mate couple you can use as a role model while practicing “living-as-if”. The love of your life is already with you.

If the majority of your answers are C’s:
The optimist in you is overshadowed by your fear that you might not get your hearts desire if you declare your intention to find your soul-mate. You often forget how lovable you really are. Take some time to focus on healing your heart of past hurts while learning to fall in love with yourself before jumping into the manifestation techniques in The Soulmate Secret.

If the majority of your answers are D’s:
Here’s the good news: You are not in denial that you have a negative frame of mind when it comes to finding big love. The not-so-good news is you have some work to do to change your beliefs about yourself and your possibilities for romantic happiness. I would suggest you find someone to help you work thorugh your hurts from the past while building your self-esteem and building new beliefs about the future. If you believe there is enough air to breathe and water to drink, start believing there is more than enough for you in this lifetime.

Click on this link if you’re interested in reading more about Arielle’s Soulmate Secret.